Incoming!

PUA ChuBeng singing in!

First, let's kick off with some basic concepts I thought that may be useful while digesting PU materials.

The OBJECTIVE of PU is understand the female psychology to a extent where we(referring to guys, unless lesbians are reading this too...) can achieve control over what they perceive of us. Sounds really terrible but that's basically PU.

The main part of PU as I humbly know it( I only read a few materials, so this statement may not be fully accurate. Please do correct me if I'm wrong) is disarming, demonstrating value and qualifying, then closing.

The main AIM of all these are to promote ATTRACTION from the girl to the guy. If there is no attraction, you won't get the girl. It is as simple as that. Common sense, right? I guess not for some people with one-itis.

I won't go into much detail about the different phases of building comfort and attraction and the other stuff but I'll just give some basic guidelines to follow.

'Leave them better than you found them' quoted from Ross Jeffries I think... This is really a main idea in attracting not only girls, but everyone. The better people feel when they're with you, they will want to be with you more often. It does not matter 'better' in which areas. As long as they feel satisfied - could be emotionally, physically or sexually, mentally excited, being on a high etc...

Many areas of PU use this concept. Demonstrating Higher Value(DHV) for instance, makes you appear as a confident and succesful guy. What's this got to do with making others feel better you say?
Before I explain my theory, 'value' is something(a quality, an ability or anything) that you possess that make you more 'valuable' or better than other guys. It can be like the ability to do magic tricks, or you can dance very well, even if you can make good lame jokes and people enjoy it shows to people that you are of higher 'value'...

Celebrities usually have a high natural value, because of their fame and fortune. If a girl gets to meet someone like Jay Chou or Brad Pitt, they will exclaim to themselves and their friend in excitement, "You know WHAT!!! I got to meet xxx, and he's really cool!!! Bla bla bla..." and that is because in their mind, they already have the prenotion that they are really capable people. Their excitement and all shows that they are satisfied emotionally and mentally.
It is the same with PUAs. If you can DHV well, and show that you are a cut above the other males, you can make the same way. Instead of 'I got to meet Jay Chou or Brad Pitt!', they'll probably exclaim, "Hey, I got to meet this cool guy! His name is [put your name here] and he bla bla bla..."
So by meeting you, they feel 'better', and thus they will like being with you. Ever seen the model student of the school getting surrounded by guys/girls? Its the same thing. High value.

Other than DHV, other stuff such as building comfort and attraction also satiates the female desire for physical touch, attraction and intimacy. And thus they will keep coming for more if you can constantly fulfill their needs.

The above paragraph may sound like it contradicts the PU guideline that a PUA must not appear as needy, but I really think attraction can only work two ways. If they don't feel satisfied or better with you, they won't feel anything for you and thus you fail. You will, in one way or another satisfy their needs because you require your hunger for sex to be satiated too. NOTHING comes for FREE.

Other than making others feel better, another note to take is to really GET A LIFE!
As Style(Neil Strauss) mentioned, a social robot a.k.a a person whose only activity in life is PU will definitely show that they have a very empty life when the girl gets to know you. Also, you have nothing much to talk about in reality because you do nothing other than PU. Do sports, hang around with friends, go learn some skills, play games, study, work or anything other than PU will definitely enrich your life and also your PUAdom much better. In a way, it becomes your 'Inner Game' as PCK mentioned below.

Also, to all keyboard jockeys, please at least do start with online gaming if you lack the balls or you are just too lazy to spend 15 mins going to your nearest shopping mall. Also, online PUing still includes real life dates so don't think you can run away with it.

Okay... That is all for now. If you have anything you want to ask or debate or teach us guys(cos we're really just rAFCs) please do leave comment or contact us. There's also a tagboard xP ---->