The Essentials - Part 2

Sorry I haven't been posting lately, fellas!

I found a way to overcome my approach anxiety (AA) and with my newfound abilities I've been able to start sarging. I'm going to field test my anti-AA tactics and if it's good I'll post it up here.

Anyway, as a continuation of my previous post on Inner Game...
Outer Game

What seperates a natural from a PUA? Is it his confidence? His looks? His body odour?

Nope.

A natural is one who has strong inner game and thus can attract women based on his own confidence and charm. A good PUA on the other hand not only has his inner game in order, but he has outer game as well.

What is outer game?

If you liken PU to a sport, inner game would be your personal fitness, muscular strength, stamina, etc etc. Outer game on the other hand would be your knowledge of the techniques involved in the sport. For example how to dribble a ball, how to kick it, how to tackle, etc etc.

In PU outer game is the things that you do in field. They are the routines, the tricks, the gambits, the patterns that you use in-field to make women insanely attracted to you. Outer game also includes the understanding of the social dynamics of a situation, and the knowledge of how to manipulate such a situation.

Is outer game more important than inner game?

While yes you can get great results with good outer game alone, inner game is the foundation upon which your entire game rests. Think of inner game as a multiplier to your outer game.

Going back to the sports example, if you have good overall fitness no matter what sport you partake in and which tactics you use, you will be generally proficient at it. A weakling on the other hand will suck balls at any sport he participates in.

This is why I wrote the inner game section first. I believe in starting at the foundations and building it up from there.

I made the mistake of learning outer game first way before building up my inner game. This I believe is a commonly shared misconception amongst rookies - that if you learn all the moves you can be as good as an mPUA. In reality, we all find that the first few sarges are the hardest. My first sarge was all the way on Valentine's Day last year. It was horrific - I'd rather defecate pineapples than repeat that experience.

You see, the initial part of learning PU has this massive hurdle called 'approach anxiety'. To properly conquer that you can either just be thick skinned and plow through or you can master inner game. Both ways in the end results in a more confident and less socially anxious you. So why not take the easier way?

Okay I realise that this post is turning into a 'we should learn inner game!' post lol.

Back to why we should learn outer game. Outer game puts you a step above the natural players since you will be able to cold approach. Naturals do not do this. Period.

Being able to cold approach would mean that your targets are not limited by your social circle or circumstances. As long as you see, you like ... you will get.

Additionally outer game also provides a structure to your sarges. You know what to do, how to escalate. It boils down the muddle of the entire seduction process into an easy step-by-step science.

So how do you learn outer game? Unlike inner game which takes a lot of self-reflection on your part (this is in addition to knowing about the concepts of inner game, which is what you get from reading) outer game requires nothing more than just reading PU materials and practising it in-field.

I recommend Magic Bullets from Mystery Method. Yeah yeah you Mystery supporters would argue that Savoy stole Mystery's ideas and makes money off them but IMHO Savoy has produced a great product that teaches you just about everything you need to know about outer game.

And if you are still adamantly against Savoy, go steal his book. Magic Bullets is about the most pirated PU ebook around.

Oh but you didn't hear that from me - I'm a nice law abiding netizen, okay ;)

Okay, stop reading this!! Go learn PU, and more importantly LIVE WITH PASSION!